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Thursday October 4th, 2018
3:00pm - 4:00pm

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Thursday October 4th, 2018

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Patsy Elizabeth Self

Patsy Elizabeth Self, 72, of Lowell, passed away on Sunday, September 30, 2018 at Robin Johnson House, Dallas, NC. She was born in Rutherford County on January 7, 1946 the daughter of the late Lucius Franklin Barnes and Hassie Emma Buchanan Barnes. She was also preceded in death by her husband, Bobby Eugene Self; Stepson, Ronald Dean Self, and three sisters. Patsy was a lifelong member of Belmont First Wesleyan Church and a member of the American Legion, Post 243, in Bessemer City. She was also a lifelong member of the American Textiles Chemist and Colorist and served as a clerk in the United States Army.

Patsy is survived by her daughter, Nichole Self; son, Jason Andrew Self; Stepsons, Michael Eugene Self and wife Becky, Joel David Self, and Terry Wayne Self; Twelve Grandchildren, and several Great Grandchildren; Special Grandchildren, Jessica and Lance Self; Special Great Granddaughter, Izabella Self; nephews, Jamie (Tina) and Allen (Annie) Horton; Special Daughter, Nancy Bailey; Special Feline Companion, Max.

A Memorial service to celebrate Patsy's life will be held Thursday, October 4, 2018 at 4:00 p.m at Benson Funeral & Cremation Services, Mt. Holly with Rev. Tony Helms officiating.   Visitation will be held one hour prior to the service.

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A candle was lit in memory of Patsy Self

Jeanne Craig Newhart, Frances Craig, and Miranda Newhart Oct 7 2018 12:00 AM

Nichole my Friend
I am so sorry to hear about Pat, she was a special lady and always very sweet to me and I thought a lot of her. I'm sorry that I cant be there for her service but please know you are in my thoughts, although we all grieve differently I have been where you are and I know what its like to loose your Mom, so what ever you feel you need to do, do it and don't let anyone tell you differently. Please know that I am here for you if you need to talk or if you feel you need to get away I'm only a couple hours down the road please dont hesitate to call me.
Your Friend,
Leigh Dreamer

Leigh Dreamer Oct 4 2018 12:00 AM

Nichole and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a wonderful person and she will be surly missed by all who knew her.
She and my Mom ( Joan) were bingo buddies for a long time and I will miss seeing her at the auction. Please know how much your mother loved you and how proud of you she was. She also loved Miss Bella so much. May God give you comfort and peace in your time of sorrow.

Renee Smith

Renee Smith Oct 4 2018 12:00 AM

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Expression of Sympathy Oct 3 2018 12:00 AM

My deepest condolences to family and friends. God knows our hearts and so when our loved ones leave us we are deeply saddened. Please take comfort in knowing that in the very near future He assures us that sickness and death will be gone. (Revelation 21:3, 4) Sincerely,

A Friend Oct 2 2018 12:00 AM